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Breaking Free From People Pleasing

Breaking Free From People Pleasing

Posted by Jay Suthers on Nov 29th, 2025

For survivors of childhood trauma, people-pleasing often becomes a deeply ingrained survival mechanism. In environments where safety and stability were unpredictable, anticipating and meeting the need … read more
The Freedom of Giving Up Control

The Freedom of Giving Up Control

Posted by Jay Suthers on Sep 18th, 2025

Giving up control can lead to a profound sense of freedom. We often believe that control brings security and predictability, but the constant effort to manage every outcome can be an exhausting and ul … read more
How to End People Pleasing Behavior

How to End People Pleasing Behavior

Posted by Jay Suthers on May 17th, 2024

The Chameleon Effect: Understanding People Pleasing and How to StopWe all want to be liked and accepted. But for some, this desire takes on an unhealthy dimension, morphing into people pleasing. Peopl … read more