Finding Your Center in the Storm of Tragedy, Chaos, and Injustice
Posted by Jay Suthers on Jan 10th, 2026
If you open your phone right now, you will likely be greeted by a firehose of grief. Tragedy, injustice, political volatility, and environmental sorrow—it all arrives in our pockets in real-time, 24 hours a day, demanded by algorithms designed to keep us outraged and engaged.
It is a heavy burden for the human nervous system. We were evolved to care about the problems of our tribe of 150 people, not the simultaneous suffering of 8 billion.
So, how do we stay centered? How do we remain informed citizens without becoming paralyzed by despair? How do we protect our peace without losing our humanity?
Here is a strategy for holding your ground when the digital tide is rising.
1. Distinguish Between "Awareness" and "Absorption"
There is a pervasive modern myth that says: If I am not suffering over this news, I do not care about it. We conflate anxiety with empathy. We feel that to look away, even for a moment, is an act of betrayal to the victims.
But drowning with the drowning does not help them.
You must draw a line between being aware (knowing what is happening so you can act) and being absorbed (letting the trauma live rent-free in your body).
- Awareness looks like: Reading a reputable news summary for 15 minutes to stay informed.
- Absorption looks like: Doom-scrolling Twitter for two hours, watching graphic videos on loop, and reading the comment sections.
The shift: Give yourself permission to disconnect. Your mental breakdown serves no one. You are more useful to the world when you are rested and regulated.
2. Shrink Your Circle to the "Zone of Impact"
When we consume global news, we often feel helpless because the scale of the problem (global injustice) is massive, but our influence (what we can do today) feels microscopic. This gap creates anxiety.
To stay centered, you must shrink your focus to your Zone of Impact.
- You cannot stop a war halfway across the world today.
- You can donate to a relief fund.
- You can help the neighbor who is struggling with their groceries.
- You can speak up against injustice in your own workplace.
Action is the antidote to despair. When the news makes you feel powerless, do one small, concrete thing in your immediate physical reality. Cook a meal. Volunteer. Call a friend. Reclaiming your agency in the small things reminds you that you are not powerless.
3. Curate Your Inputs Like a Diet
If you ate nothing but sugar and poison, you would expect to feel sick. Yet we feed our minds a diet of unverified rumors, hot takes, and catastrophic predictions and wonder why we feel anxious.
- Mute the Noise: Unfollow accounts that monetize your outrage. If a pundit or influencer leaves you feeling hopeless rather than informed, mute them.
- Seek Solutions Journalism: actively look for news sources that report on responses to problems, not just the problems themselves. Read about the scientists, the peacemakers, and the activists who are doing the work. It reminds you that for every tragedy, there are helpers.
4. Practice "Grief Stewardship"
Sometimes, the news is just that bad. When you encounter genuine tragedy, do not scroll past it to the next cat video. That emotional whiplash is damaging.
Instead, stop. Put the phone down. Close your eyes.
Allow yourself to feel the sadness for a moment. Acknowledge it. "This is sad. I feel grief for these people."
Then, take a deep breath and release it.
By processing the emotion in real-time rather than stuffing it down, you prevent it from calcifying into chronic anxiety. You are stewarding your grief, respecting the reality of the pain, and then choosing to move forward.
The calm is not a retreat; it is a resource.
Staying centered is not about burying your head in the sand. It is about keeping your footing so you can be strong enough to pull others up. The world doesn't need more panicked people. It needs grounded, compassionate, and steady hearts. Be one of them.
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I hope this is helpful but please let me know if you have any questions or thoughts.
Sincerely Yours,
Jay
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BONUS: The Good News Is, There Is Good News: A Guide to Constructive Media
We often believe that "being informed" means knowing everything that is going wrong. But a map that only shows the roadblocks and none of the alternate routes isn’t an accurate map—it’s just a recipe for anxiety.
To stay centered in 2026, we need to broaden our definition of news to include Solutions Journalism. This isn't "fluff" or "cute animal videos." It is rigorous, evidence-based reporting on how people are responding to social problems. It doesn't ignore the fire; it reports on the firefighters.
Here are the best news sources that report on current events while consistently offering solutions, hope, and a constructive path forward.
1. The Dedicated Constructive Outlets
These organizations exist solely to report on progress and solutions.
- Positive News (UK): The pioneer of constructive journalism. They publish a quarterly magazine and a daily website that covers society, environment, and lifestyle. Their reporting is journalistically rigorous but focuses entirely on "what went right."
- Best for: A daily check-in that won't spike your cortisol.
- YES! Magazine: A non-profit, independent publisher that focuses on "social justice and sustainable happiness." They go deep into systemic solutions for economic and environmental issues.
- Best for: Deep dives into how we can actually fix broken systems (e.g., housing, climate, education).
- Reasons to be Cheerful: Founded by musician David Byrne (of Talking Heads fame), this online magazine is a "tonic for tumultuous times." It is strictly editorial and fact-based, reporting on successful initiatives around the world, from urban planning in Europe to healthcare in Africa.
- Best for: unexpectedly fascinating stories about things that are actually working.
2. The Curators (Newsletters & Aggregators)
If you don't have time to hunt for stories, these outlets deliver a curated "diet" of hope to your inbox.
- Good Good Good: They publish "The Goodnewspaper" (a print paper) and a daily newsletter. Their motto is to help you "feel more hopeful and do more good." They do an excellent job of vetting stories so you aren't just reading press releases.
- Best for: A 5-minute morning read to start your day on a high note.
- The Optimist Daily: This site aggregates solutions-oriented stories from major news outlets (like The Guardian, BBC, etc.) and presents them in one place. It acts as a filter, removing the doom and leaving the progress.
- Best for: Catching up on major global developments through a solutions lens.
3. The Specialists (Topic-Specific)
Sometimes the news is overwhelming because it’s too broad. These outlets focus on solutions within specific, high-stress topics.
- Grist (Climate): Climate change is the #1 source of news anxiety for many. Grist is a beacon in the smog. They focus heavily on climate solutions, green technology, and environmental justice, proving that a sustainable future is possible.
- The 19th (Gender & Politics): An independent, non-profit newsroom reporting on gender, politics, and policy. Their reporting is often more nuanced and less polarized than cable news, focusing on how policy impacts real lives.
4. Mainstream Sections to Bookmark
Even the giants of media have recognized the need for this. Instead of visiting their homepages, bookmark these specific sections:
- BBC "People Fixing the World": A brilliant podcast and video series dedicated to people solving global problems.
- The Guardian "The Upside": A dedicated section of the British newspaper that seeks out stories of progress and reconstruction.
- NYT "Headway": The New York Times initiative that explores the world’s challenges through the lens of progress and what we can learn from it.
A Final Tip for Your "Diet"
You don't need to ignore the mainstream news entirely. But try to balance your plate. For every article you read about a crisis, challenge yourself to read one article from the sources above about a solution. It reminds your brain that while the world is indeed full of problems, it is also full of people working hard to solve them.